Regardless of how much pain you’re in after your girlfriend dumps you, and no matter how much you’re desperately in need of her…you can’t let yourself look like a desperate fool when you try to get her back. Here are some tips for you on how to accomplish your goal of getting her back without being a total schmuck.
Getting her back can be kind of a game…you play the right cards and you’ll get about what you want out of it. There are certain things you can do to achieve certain results, and knowing these can mean the difference between begging her to take you back and her begging you to take her back.
Instead of rushing to her and staying by her every move (like a desperate loser), back off. Do the opposite of being there all the time, even though it’s probably your first impulse to do otherwise. Cutting contact completely will force her to deal with life without you as you deal with life without her. Loneliness will hit her as hard as it hits you, and she more than likely will start to question whether or not she made the right decision in dumping you.
There’s a great mind game you can play with her, by exploiting that doubt she feels. If she’s missing you really bad, how much will it hurt her if you look like you’re doing absolutely amazingly, looking and feeling the best you ever have in your life? Ok, so you may not want to make her hurt, but if she sees you at your best she’ll be missing you like crazy and all the things she hated will fade from her mind and be replaced by the things she misses. All you have to do is look your best and take control of your feelings, and put on your “happy face” anytime you’re in public.
These two things alone are great for greatly improving your odds of getting her back, without demeaning yourself in any way. In fact, if you “put on a show” for long enough you’ll actually start to feel the way you’re trying to present yourself. This stuff doesn’t just help you get your ex back, it helps you get over your breakup pain as well!
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